Introduction:
There is one secret to tidying up your home or workspace for good: start by discarding. Then organise your space thoroughly in one go. Putting your space in order will positively affect all other aspects of your life. A dramatic reorganisation of the home causes corresponding dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective. It can be life-changing.When you put your house in order, you put your affairs and your past in order too. The KonMari Method is a guide that will help you acquire the right mindset for creating order and becoming a tidy person.
Why Can’t I Keep My House in Order?
- You can’t tidy if you’ve never learned how. Schools teach everything from cooking to yoga, but tidying is rarely taught.
- Tidying a little each day means tidying forever. If you put your entire house in proper order, you won’t suffer a rebound.
- To change your lifestyle, you must first change your mindset. Tidy up in one shot rather than little by little.
- The work can be broadly divided into two decisions:
- Deciding whether to discard something.
- Deciding where to put it.
Tidying by location is a mistake; instead, tidy by category (e.g., all clothes, all books, etc.).
Make tidying a special event, not a daily chore.
Finish Discarding First
- Start by discarding everything at once, intensely and completely.
- Identify your goal—why do you want to tidy? Imagine what a clutter-free space would feel like.
- Choose what you want to keep, not what you want to discard. Take each item in your hand and ask, “Does this spark joy?”
- Tidy by category, not by location. Gather everything in a category before deciding what to keep.
- The best order for discarding:
Clothes
Books
Papers
Miscellaneous items
Mementoes - Don’t let your family see what you discard; they may interfere.
- If you don’t need it, your family doesn’t need it either.
- Tidying is an internal dialogue—a meditative process that helps you reflect on what is truly important.
Tidying by Category Works Like Magic
Clothing:
- Tidy clothing in the following order: tops, bottoms, clothes that should be hung, socks, underwear, bags, accessories, special occasion clothes, shoes.
- Place all clothing on the floor. Only keep the clothes that give you joy.
- Don’t downgrade old clothes to "loungewear"—this leads to unnecessary clutter.
- Folding is key—store clothes standing up, not stacked.
- Hang heavier items on the left and lighter items on the right in your closet.
Books:
- Place all books on the floor and discard those that don’t bring joy.
- Avoid keeping books for "someday." If you haven’t read it, you probably won’t.
Papers:
- Discard everything except papers that are currently in use, needed for a limited period, or must be kept indefinitely.
- Store all papers in one spot—do not scatter them throughout the house.
Miscellaneous Items:
- Keep only items that actively make you happy.
- Common unnecessary items to discard: cosmetic samples, electronic packaging, unidentified cords, spare buttons.
- Follow your intuition—ask “Does this spark joy?”
Storing Your Things to Make Your Life Shine
- Designate a specific place for everything.
- Store similar items together to prevent clutter.
- Storage should make it easy to put things away, not just easy to take things out.
- Store items vertically, not stacked.
- Don’t buy storage solutions until after tidying.
- Store bags inside other bags.
- Empty your handbag daily.
- Keep bathroom items dry and store them after use.
- Store spices inside cabinets, not on the counter.
- Treat your home as a sacred space—transform it into a place that gives you energy and joy.
- Appreciate your possessions—say “thank you” when putting items away.
The Magic of Tidying Dramatically Transforms Your Life
- Tidying up reveals what you truly love and what matters most.
- Letting go is more important than acquiring.
- You gain confidence in decision-making by going through hundreds of items and choosing joy.
- Clutter is tied to attachment to the past and fear of the future.
- Tidying helps you confront emotions and move forward.
- Once you declutter, you realise you need less.
- Tidying is a celebration, a farewell to unnecessary things and a welcome to a joyful life.
Life begins after you have put your house in order.