The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up

By: Marie Kondo

Introduction:  

There is one secret to tidying up your home or workspace for good: start by discarding. Then organise your space thoroughly in one go. Putting your space in order will positively affect all other aspects of your life. A dramatic reorganisation of the home causes corresponding dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective. It can be life-changing.When you put your house in order, you put your affairs and your past in order too. The KonMari Method is a guide that will help you acquire the right mindset for creating order and becoming a tidy person.


Why Can’t I Keep My House in Order?

  • You can’t tidy if you’ve never learned how. Schools teach everything from cooking to yoga, but tidying is rarely taught.
  • Tidying a little each day means tidying forever. If you put your entire house in proper order, you won’t suffer a rebound.
  • To change your lifestyle, you must first change your mindset. Tidy up in one shot rather than little by little.
  • The work can be broadly divided into two decisions:
  1. Deciding whether to discard something.
  2. Deciding where to put it.

Tidying by location is a mistake; instead, tidy by category (e.g., all clothes, all books, etc.).
Make tidying a special event, not a daily chore.


Finish Discarding First

  • Start by discarding everything at once, intensely and completely.
  • Identify your goal—why do you want to tidy? Imagine what a clutter-free space would feel like.
  • Choose what you want to keep, not what you want to discard. Take each item in your hand and ask, “Does this spark joy?”
  • Tidy by category, not by location. Gather everything in a category before deciding what to keep.
  • The best order for discarding:
    Clothes
    Books
    Papers
    Miscellaneous items
    Mementoes
  • Don’t let your family see what you discard; they may interfere.
  • If you don’t need it, your family doesn’t need it either.
  • Tidying is an internal dialogue—a meditative process that helps you reflect on what is truly important.


Tidying by Category Works Like Magic

Clothing:

  • Tidy clothing in the following order: tops, bottoms, clothes that should be hung, socks, underwear, bags, accessories, special occasion clothes, shoes.
  • Place all clothing on the floor. Only keep the clothes that give you joy.
  • Don’t downgrade old clothes to "loungewear"—this leads to unnecessary clutter.
  • Folding is key—store clothes standing up, not stacked.
  • Hang heavier items on the left and lighter items on the right in your closet.

Books:

  • Place all books on the floor and discard those that don’t bring joy.
  • Avoid keeping books for "someday." If you haven’t read it, you probably won’t.

Papers:

  • Discard everything except papers that are currently in use, needed for a limited period, or must be kept indefinitely.
  • Store all papers in one spot—do not scatter them throughout the house.

Miscellaneous Items:

  • Keep only items that actively make you happy.
  • Common unnecessary items to discard: cosmetic samples, electronic packaging, unidentified cords, spare buttons.
  • Follow your intuition—ask “Does this spark joy?”


Storing Your Things to Make Your Life Shine

  • Designate a specific place for everything.
  • Store similar items together to prevent clutter.
  • Storage should make it easy to put things away, not just easy to take things out.
  • Store items vertically, not stacked.
  • Don’t buy storage solutions until after tidying.
  • Store bags inside other bags.
  • Empty your handbag daily.
  • Keep bathroom items dry and store them after use.
  • Store spices inside cabinets, not on the counter.
  • Treat your home as a sacred space—transform it into a place that gives you energy and joy.
  • Appreciate your possessions—say “thank you” when putting items away.


The Magic of Tidying Dramatically Transforms Your Life

  • Tidying up reveals what you truly love and what matters most.
  • Letting go is more important than acquiring.
  • You gain confidence in decision-making by going through hundreds of items and choosing joy.
  • Clutter is tied to attachment to the past and fear of the future.
  • Tidying helps you confront emotions and move forward.
  • Once you declutter, you realise you need less.
  • Tidying is a celebration, a farewell to unnecessary things and a welcome to a joyful life.


Life begins after you have put your house in order.

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